The Road to Television: A Leap of Faith

As I enter into my fall semester of the TRF grad program at Newhouse, I am overwhelmed with an array of emotions. I have found myself wondering how I got on this campus and  back into classrooms after I vowed that I was done with syllabi and textbooks. I have found myself thinking about the security of the salaried job and steady paycheck I gave up to go back to being a broke college kid. I  have found myself worrying about what it’s going to be like being a student again after taking a year and a half off. I have found myself reflecting on that decision I made to drop everything that was normal and safe to follow a dream.

A leap of Faith

Taking a leap of faith as they call it, is the phenomenon of doing something where the outcome is unknown.  It’s taking a step out of your comfort zone and trying something different. So many people consider taking a leap of faith to be something we do only when we are about to encounter something big and “life changing” and as a result, so many people are afraid to do it. However, we take leaps of faith every day. Everything after the present is unknown. We don’t know  whats going to happen from one minute to the next,  but we still choose to walk into the unknown of each new minute of the day without taking a second thought. So, why is it so hard to do on a conscious level?

1.The Fear of stepping out of our comfort zones

Stepping outside of life as we know it now and entering into something totally unknown is unpredictable,  scary, and so many people fear it more than anything. We feel discomfort, fear,  and anxiety when trying something new, and would rather cling to the safety of our comfortable and predictable lives.

2. Sacrifices and Change 

Taking a leap of faith almost always comes with many sacrifices and lots of change. Saying goodbye to certain ways of life that we don’t necessarily want to let go of, but have to let go of is one of the worse feelings ever. From moving away from family, to not being able to go to the movies every week, to what have you, it is so hard to focus on the big picture and the future when it means sacrifice, change, and discomfort in the present.

How to Cope

I know that deciding to go back to school provoked all of the aforementioned feelings in me.  However, a few key people and mindsets help me cope with this transition:

1.God

I have a serious relationship with God and trust that he will take care of me. Knowing this keeps me from worrying and stressing out about things such as finances, post grad life, and all the things that are somewhat up in the air for me at times. It also helps me to remember that I am doing exactly what I’m supposed to be doing even though it’s scary.

2. Support System

My parents, friends, and boyfriend are a big support to me. When I’m feeling down or unsure of my decision to pursue this degree, they remind me of why I’m here, encourage me to keep going , and  put things back into perspective for me. I also have my peers here at Newhouse. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has moments of fear, worry, stress or what have you. Having my peers is a nice reminder that I am not alone and that others understand the exact feelings I’m having.

3. Focusing on the Big Picture 

It’s so easy to put all of my focus on the present simply because that’s where I am. When things get stressful or hard in the present, thinking about the bigger picture and reason why you’re feeling that way now is the last think I want to think about. Focusing on the big picture helps me to remember that everything I’m doing is for a greater purpose and a greater life for me, and by remembering that, I am motivated to keep moving.

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Taking a leap of faith is very scary and uncomfortable. However, don’t let discomfort and fear of the unknown stop you-be brave! Find a good set of coping mechanisms, utilize them to the fullest, and jump at your destiny. Sure, it will always be safer to stick to what you know and are comfortable with, but by doing that, you may never know your true potential and you may never know your true purpose. Take a chance on yourself and follow your dreams- if not you’ll regret it forever.

Remember you don’t have to be average you can be extraordinary. You don’t have to be a rock, you can be a diamond!

neon

 

My First Short Film:One More Day

Well after six weeks of complete and utter chaos, I can finally say I have completed boot camp at Syracuse University! From sleepless nights, to unforgettable experiences, this has been one of the most life changing summers of my life. I’ve learned so many new things, have met some pretty amazing and talented people, and have discovered a strength and drive within myself that I didnt know existed! It’s so crazy how quickly things change from a dream and desire to being thrown into the deep end of reality. As scary as that is, I believe it’s an experience that every person following a dream should have. It’s so easy to think about a dream and what things will be like when you’ve achieved that dream, but the real test comes with actually doing it. The real test comes when you’re in the building and hard work stages- I believe that’s what determines how serious you are and where you learn how ready you are to follow your dreams.

All in all, after this summer, I can say that I know I am ready to follow my dream. Is it going to be easy? Of course not. Is it going to happen overnight? No way. However, I’m up for the challenge. Check out my my first milestone, and short film I produced entitled, “One More Day”. Please give me feedback, share, and support! I would really appreciate it!

Remember, you don’t have to be average, you can be extraordinary. You dont have to be a rock, you can be a diamond.

neon

 

 

The Road to Television: Halfway Done

As I reach the halfway point of summer bootcamp at Syracuse University, I have a lot of awesome things going on!!! Watch for yourself!!!😀😀

I truly hope that everyone is enjoying these videos, and I hope they are an inspiration to those of you who are still afraid to follow your dreams!❤

You don’t have to be average, you can be extraordinary. You don’t have to be a rock, you can  be a diamond!

neon

 

Don’t Decorate Your Cage

While I was scrolling down my instagram, I ran across an interesting photo:

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Photo Credit: @bossbabe.inc

 

When I saw this it really made me think- A cage if decorated is still a cage. What does that mean? Here are my thoughts:

Sometimes in life we are put in situations that we don’t like. We are stuck doing things and being involved in things that we feel like we have no control over, but have no choice but to do it. Whether it be a person, a job, or a living situation, we start to feel trapped.

Because we feel trapped and like we have no other options, we begin to settle for these bad situations. We begin to pretend that everything is great when it isn’t. We shift our mind to thinking that we are happy when we’re not. We begin to think that we’re satisified when we’re not. We begin to decorate our cage.

Today I am encouraging us not to decorate our cages. Dont settle for people, situations, jobs, lives, or whatever way our cage decides to manifest itself that we aren’t happy with or satisfied with. When we’re feeling trapped in our cages and like we have no choice but to settle, remember that the key to freedom lies within us. However, finding it starts with a decision. It’s a decision to believe we’re worth more. It’s decision to realize that we don’t have to settle for anything less than extraoridnary and amazing. It’s a decision to follow a dream, to pursue a goal. It’s a decision to be happy- it’s decison to be free.

Remember, you dont have to be average you can be extraordinary. You dont have to be a rock, you can be a diamond.

neon

Ebony Queen

EBONY
Ebony Queen;
Her Beauty sweet like a summer's eve
Her skin glistens like a starry night
Her soul burns with a passion deep

She stands alone, her back to the world
A taste of wisdom with each word she speaks
Natural power inscribed in her spirit
O how black and beautiful is she

Ebony Queen;
In her eyes you can see a dream
Her motivation, strong and unwavering
The love in her heart sings like a melody

Her head looks toward the sky,
depending on God to guide her way
Solid and confident, she walks with grace
Leaving a path of hope and faith

Ebony Queen;
She carries on her grandmother's honor
Her mother's virtue and sparkling pride
Her ancestor's blood runs through her veins
The whispering voices of the wise

Ebony Queen;
A stature of elegance in God's own image
A momentous portrait of prayer and peace
Ebony, Ebony, beautiful Ebony
The Voice of Victory

-Kayla Skipper